“Hey Coach, today seems like a good team lake day…” This was the text I received from one of our senior team leaders on a hot afternoon prior to our evening OTA (Organized Team Activity).

After 4 weeks of OTAs with 3 more to go, it was perfect timing for a team building activity. By 7:30pm a dozen cars and trucks driven by veterans and filled with rookies pulled up to our lake house. Fortunately, we had bags of chips and a cooler of water left over from our staff 4th of July party to get them started. Within minutes, the “Big Guys” gravitated to the swim platform for a King of the Hill type battle. Others swam to the neighbor’s swim platforms and water trampoline. Another crew headed out on kayaks and stand up paddleboards.
When they all returned to the dock, another senior leader asked if he could light the grill. When I informed them I had no time to pick up anything, he said that’s OK, we grabbed enough burgers for everyone. As the sun set, our yard was filled with players laughing, sharing stories like brothers, and having a chance to connect as more than athletes.
I think about the teams I’ve both coached and played on… The best of those found opportunities for shared experiences of fun. Time together, where other aspects of interdependence could show them selves. Upperclassmen providing rides and burgers, including underclassmen as equally as their peers. Big Guys playing “King of the Hill,” but taking care not to injure the “little guys,” all while everyone laughs… While out of the context of the football field or locker room, our players demonstrated those same artifacts of culture, shared belief in who we are, shared vision of what we could accomplish together, and the shared values elevating the good of the team above any individual.
These are some of the experiences accumulated, one at a time over years (and in some cases decades) that create such an affinity for this game, our tribe, and the character that underpins it. No pads, no plays. Just fun.
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