“We human beings are social beings. We come into the world as a result of others’ actions. We survive here in dependence on others. Whether we like it or not, there is hardly a moment of our lives when we do not benefit from others’ activities. For this reason, it is hardly surprising that most of our happiness arises in the context of our relationships with others.” Dalai Lama XIV
While it is imperative that we exercise social distancing during these unprecedented times, it does not come naturally to us. We, as humans, must connect. Last weekend, I joined 4 of my best friends (friends of more than 40 years!) on a Group FaceTime call. While we talked, the miles between Vermont, New Jersey, Virginia,
North Carolina, and Florida disappeared and it was if they were sitting with me in my kitchen. After 90 minutes of catching up on everything from our children’s accomplishments to our home projects, we ended the call grateful for our friendships, time together, and with plans to schedule the next one.
Find ways to be social. Use this time as an opportunity to connect with someone with whom you have lost touch. Check-in on someone who you know is alone in your family or in your neighborhood. While the elderly are most threatened by this pandemic, they are also the most impacted by the epidemic of loneliness.
Reach out. Reconnect.
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complicated by coaches trying to prove how brilliant they are. But the key to prolonged success in football is keeping it simple so the players know it almost as well as the coaches. One of the greatest compliments I received was from Mike Kuchar, Co-founder and Senior Editor of XandOlabs.com, when he said, “the clarity of your teaching simplifies the game tremendously.”
There was a tiger paw everywhere you looked on campus and in town and everyone wore Clemson Tiger apparel. The football stadium and facility were a highlight. Championship rings and trophy displays were amazing. I was struck by scope, scale, and complexity of the football operations and culture, but then realized the same teambuilding process we employ in northern Vermont (albeit at a much smaller scale) happens there in Clemson, South Carolina.
Atlantic City, NJ to attend the
My focus turned to being great at the job I had; investing in players, building teams, and studying the game. I looked for opportunities to contribute, to help others succeed rather than pursuing the “next great job.”
Games are all about time competitive decision making, and a coach or player’s ability to adjust and improvise to rapidly evolving circumstances is essential to success.

