It was 40 years ago this week that I reported to my first high school training camp as a freshman entering Toms River North in Ocean County, New Jersey. I remember how intimidated I was by the varsity players who would go on to win a state championship later that year. They occupied a large locker room in the field house opposite the small space for the freshman team. But in that small space friendships were being forged that would last a lifetime.
As coincidence would have it, I’m writing this blog early in the morning of Day 3 of our camp, and just received a text from one of those friends who is also a football coach.
Several other of our teammates were included. It read: “You guys don’t know how much you inspired, encouraged and motivated me. I love you and thank you. 40 years…damn. Mr. Nani looked so big.” Mr. Nani was our coach and the most intimidating looking man in the locker room. He is now a dear friend as well, and each of us in our own ways has tried to emulate the positive impacts he had on us and so many during his career.
I know the techniques, schemes, and plays I teach to my players today will likely be forgotten over time, but I pray the time spent together now will yield the kind of friendships we enjoy so much later. Friends that I have been blessed with for four decades who were by my side during the most celebrated moments in my life, and more importantly the most difficult times as well. I love them. They are my brothers.
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All our coaches have successfully completed their online USA Football Certification courses prior to Mini Camp to ensure we are up to date and teaching the safest techniques in our sport.
it would be very easy to look at others as “Them.” 25% of our student body are dorm students from all over the world. We have players on our team from Canada, Mexico, Germany, Finland, Spain, Hungary, China, Thailand, Taiwan, and even Rwanda. The largest population on our team is from local students; players whose families have lived in the area and attended the Academy for generations. Then there is another population whose parents are Faculty/Staff. Many of these students live on campus and their parents serve as dorm proctors. Our campus is truly an amazing intersection of cultures. Our student-athletes have exposure opportunities my teammates and I could never have dreamed of back in New Jersey in the early ’80s.
But for one week this summer, boys from St Johnsbury’s youth football program, the Rodliff Raiders, and those from the Lyndon Vikings youth program came together as teammates and friends. Kids from both towns did not look at each other as “them” but rather as “us.” That which could have so easily divided us was set aside for a greater good; for teamwork, camaraderie, and mutual benefit.
versus a team from national power Bergen Catholic in our first game of the UMass 7v7 tournament was more than our newly formed team was ready for. But it was just what we needed. As the day went on, we witnessed our team go from the Storming Stage of Tuckman’s Phases of Team Development to the Norming Stage.
While I may be discussing these stages in weekly posts, I don’t mean to suggest I think our team (or many others) moves from stage to stage in one-week intervals. The goal is to work through Forming, Storming, and Norming (essentially assembling the pieces of the puzzle) before the real season kicks off. “If” we time it right (always an “if” given the variables we juggle), we’ll hit the “Performing” stage about a week before our season opener and move through the season refining our performance.
Even returning veterans of the program benefit from the mental adjustments catalyzed by sharp, pointed direction, and the shrill of a coach’s whistle. Life is no longer “normal.” Players are reminded “games are not won on Fridays and Saturdays in the Fall…” Players new and old are candidly reminded of their responsibilities and commitments to teammate and team. Coaches relay the importance of setting a personal example… an example of what it means to be a Hilltopper on and off the field, as well as in the community.