I hope you had a wonderful Fourth of July and were able to celebrate the Holiday with family and friends while focusing on more of the things we have in common than the things many outlets suggest divide us.
While our varsity players continue with their summer OTAs and the process of working through the Norming Stage of Tuckman’s Model, the next generation of football players in Vermont’s Northeast Kingdom recently joined together to participate in the Hilltopper Youth Football Camp.
In a Fall 2018, blog post, I shared the historic rivalry between St Johnsbury Academy and Lyndon Institute. Our rivalry is one of the oldest in the nation and it runs deep through the families who have been living in this area for generations.
But for one week this summer, boys from St Johnsbury’s youth football program, the Rodliff Raiders, and those from the Lyndon Vikings youth program came together as teammates and friends. Kids from both towns did not look at each other as “them” but rather as “us.” That which could have so easily divided us was set aside for a greater good; for teamwork, camaraderie, and mutual benefit.
Team sports (football in particular), provide a prime opportunity for youth to work together, rely on each other and interact with teammates from a variety of backgrounds regardless of their perceived differences. By the end of the week, we saw rivals become best friends, forging potentially lifelong relationships.
A child’s social circles have an impact on their identity perspectives. Being a part of a diverse group of friends, prepares kids to deal with people who may not share the same background or perspective. When one thinks about all the different seats in a sports stadium, and all the potential angles of view, it really is true to say “Where you sit determines what you see.” Youth sports are a great way for children to expand and diversify their social circles, creating opportunities to view the game of life from different seats, with different views.
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versus a team from national power Bergen Catholic in our first game of the UMass 7v7 tournament was more than our newly formed team was ready for. But it was just what we needed. As the day went on, we witnessed our team go from the Storming Stage of Tuckman’s Phases of Team Development to the Norming Stage.
While I may be discussing these stages in weekly posts, I don’t mean to suggest I think our team (or many others) moves from stage to stage in one-week intervals. The goal is to work through Forming, Storming, and Norming (essentially assembling the pieces of the puzzle) before the real season kicks off. “If” we time it right (always an “if” given the variables we juggle), we’ll hit the “Performing” stage about a week before our season opener and move through the season refining our performance.
Even returning veterans of the program benefit from the mental adjustments catalyzed by sharp, pointed direction, and the shrill of a coach’s whistle. Life is no longer “normal.” Players are reminded “games are not won on Fridays and Saturdays in the Fall…” Players new and old are candidly reminded of their responsibilities and commitments to teammate and team. Coaches relay the importance of setting a personal example… an example of what it means to be a Hilltopper on and off the field, as well as in the community.
our team who have what it takes and identify those who can be inspired to have what it takes. Our job as coaches is to help those who have it to reinforce it, and those who don’t yet know, to find it, and to recognize both that they “have what it takes…” and that it must be both cultivated and for all to know it must be protected.
If you want better participation numbers for your summer organized team activities (OTAs), be sure to create a calendar and get it into the hands of your players and their parents as soon as possible. We distributed ours on Friday of last week. With family vacations, other sports travel teams and everything else kids can do these days, we need them to know in advance when and where they need to be.
Even more problematic, we coaches have a funny way of making things more difficult than necessary…
The Giants clearly prioritized culture over talent when they traded away one of the most talented players in the league earlier this year. They also went with culture with their #6 pick in the draft. Not to say that Daniel Jones is not talented, but he is most definitely the best cultural fit of this year’s QB choices due to his relationship with the Mannings.